February13
After Cyprus was born, a lot of focus shifted from Daphne onto him. There was a point that I was feeling really annoyed with her, but I then had a revelation. Daphne is still changing and growing and if I do not figure out how to balance everything, this precious time in her life is going to pass me up.
Currently, Daphne is doing a really, really great job. She is starting to see and learn that she cannot get everything the way that she wants all the time. She is willing to be helpful with dinner or with her brother. She has learned that the more helpful and sweet that she is, the more time that is left over for us to play with her.
There was so much hope for all the fun that we would have when she was a baby. I remember thinking that having a baby was so boring because they couldn’t talk or reason. I wanted to be able to do science experiments and go for walks. I GOT my wish! Now I have both a baby an an older kid, it truly is the best of both worlds.
I started this post a while ago with lots of different photos of Daphne because I wanted to show off her incredible spirit of play! She is so silly and goofy, and I admire so much her excitement at exploring the world.
She was looking through a miniature slinky trying to show me how “see-through” it is.

Apparently, looking through things is popular!


I took this when we were out at a local park in Mcminnville called Discovery Meadows. There are so many things to do and see there. Daphne is excavating this giant sand pit.

One day, Daphne thought it would be fun to wear her daddy’s shoes. Doesn’t she look like a silly clown?

This was another trip to Discovery Meadows before it got too cold out. They have a water fountain at the park that is designed to be played in and run through. Daphne took off her pants and spent as much time as she could stand running around in the fountain playing.

Here we are at another park playing around. Daphne is a big fan of swinging, and would prefer that she got to spend 24 hours a day being pushed in the swing. Aww… look at how small Cyprus is here!

Daphne and her cousin Eli were running around this big tree in the park. Look at how excited she is here.

I love this smile, and those EYES.

Daphne is a huge fan of playing with babies. Right after Rouge was born, we spent some time at her house playing around. Daphne practiced being a mom to Copper’s baby Daisy while Audrey took care of a real baby.

Pockets are so important to keep things in. Toddler law states that if there is a pocket available that it must be in use at all times.

Daphne decided she as going to read (and write on) the newspaper one morning. We still have to work a little bit on which way the newspaper goes, but at least she is interested in reading.

Here she is working on a project cutting up snowflakes to decorate our windows during the holiday season.

We recently got our guitar back from being lent out. Daphne discovered it and realized that it was an amazingly cool thing. She took to trying to play immediately. She is actually pretty good at making nice music. It is so big for her, it looks like a bass here.

On Christmas day, we had some friends visit with their new baby. Daphne decided she was going to help with the baby, so she spent time wrapping up this changing pad and putting it away in the bag only to get it back out again a minute later and start all over again.

No matter what, I look at Daphne and remember that I should always appreciate her childhood innocence. Her spirit of play and love makes me remember the only thing that should matter to us on this earth.